THRESHOLDGIRL…..thoughts as I write Threshold Girl the ebook

January 25, 2011

Hot and Cold Running Ancestors

Filed under: Isle of Lewis diaspora,YouTube vacations — thresholdgirl @ 6:11 pm


Isle of Lewis from a YouTube Video. There’s a great one on YouTube, very professionally done.

I love my husband. That’s why I am going to Vegas in February for a few days. He likes that place, in the winter, when it isn’t too hot.

But there’s one place I probably won’t be going to soon, and that’s the Isle of Lewis.

I just took my husband on a tour of his ancestral home via YouTube. Just a few minutes ago. Because he’s the grandson of Marion Nicholson of Flo in the City.

He seemed entranced.

He’s also one of many great grandchildren of John McLeod of Uig Carnish. Just the other day I watched my husband shave and realized he has the same eyes and mouth as John. Indeed, except for his nose he is all McLeod. (His nose is a “Hardy” nose, that would be the same nose as his cousin General Douglas MacArthur.)

A tourist locale in Isle of Lewis, exact replicas of native homes.

It’s 25 below zero Celcius (a kind of record) outside and my husband still went out for a walk with the dog. (I haven’t ventured out in two days, despite having a mean craving for some Indian samosas.)

He likes the cold.

He likes damp cold the most, the kind that gets in your bones and makes you want to cry, the kind of weather found on Lewis. It’s in the genes, you know.

Me, well, my Dad was from Northern England (Yorkshire) and my mother was French Canadian, but I’m a mediterranean type.

The 100 degree temperatures in Greece last August suited me fine. My husband didn’t go on that trip. He would have hated it, anyway.

Above is a pic of stone circles in Uig Carnish (I think). “Look!” I said to my husband. “Here’s where you ancestors danced around naked.” Well, maybe not naked, in sheep skins and kilts. Playing the bagpipes.

Edith Nicholson visited Uig Carnish in 1932 or so. She brought back postcards and information about the Nicholson Institute, a school. I think she assumed her people established the place. But from what I know, the Nicholsons came to the Isle of Lewis by way of Skye, whereas the McLeods were long time residents.

The Nicholsons were coal-oil merchants or something. Nothing fancy at all.

Edith also went to France on another trip. She commented on how careful the French are with their food, “even the boiled meals.”

December 26, 2009

crayon portrait of a Highlander

Filed under: crayon portrait.,Isle of Lewis diaspora — thresholdgirl @ 4:25 pm

John McLeod, farmer in Lingwick, Quebec, married 1849. This is a scan of a crayon portrait which is a tintype, blown up and then embellished with charcoal artistry. I have the tintype from which this portrait (30 inches by 18 inches) is made. In the tintype he is seated with his pregnant wife, Sarah McLean, standing and he is rather dishevelled.So original photo taken in 1850′s. The artist cleaned him up for posterity. (Looks like my husband, his great great grandchild. Even the slight palsy.)
I have the crayon of his mother and a man and a woman who are probably his brother and sisters. Hoot Man.

Hmm. Bizarre coincidence. I am surfing the web, trying to find a programme of the Quebec tercentenary. There are a couple online, for sale, but no contents visible. Anyway, I found this picture of a programme on The Virtual Museum of Canada. Just a picture of the cover, so I closed it and then said.. Hey, Wait a minute!I went back to the page. It had ‘an ad’ on the bottom of the cover, “We recommend Boswell and Bros. ales and porter.” There’s a connection here to Tighsolas… The man in the picture above had a number of daughters, among them Margaret of the story Flo in the City (my husband’s great grandmother)and Sarah, who lived in Sarnia, Ontario. (Sarah had a tough life, with a sick husband and her letters to Margaret are full of complaints. Another sister, Christie, claims Sarah’s daughters are all selfish….a counter-point to the Nicholsons and their devoted daughters.)

One of Sarah’s daughters had a daughter, who married a military man, a Boswell, of the Boswell and Bros clan! The woman was very pretty, indeed, she was a Ford model. But she died in Kuala Lumpur in a car accident (where my own grandmother lived, incidentally) leaving behind a son, Desmond. Boswell remarried and the wife did not want Desmond around..

He was left to be raised by the grandmother in Westmount. The son went to fine schools and raced cars for fun, banged his head uup badly in a racing accident and became a hermit of a kind. He inherited his grandmother’s country home in the quiet little suburb and became a ‘local character’ and thorn in the side of local council because he let his house fall down around him until he was living in a tent. Sad story. My husband’s 4th cousin. He recently died at about 65.

December 12, 2009

CRAVING A CORSET 14th installment

Filed under: genes and such,Hebridean Scots,Isle of Lewis diaspora — thresholdgirl @ 5:16 pm

Sarah Maclean, Margaret’s mother, Flo’s grandmother, from a tintype from 1840′s?? altered a bit in Corel Photo by me and rather inexpertly, at that. It was in a round frame,about 12 inches, but quite a lousy tintype.

Poor Sarah, she was born too early to have a pretty picture of her as a youth, and of course, being dirt poor, an immigrant from Coll, in the Hebrides no painting would be done of her. So this was about the best there is. She lived to 1912 and her death caused a commotion as you will see in future chapters of Flo in the City, my novel based on the real life of Flora Nicholson, about a young woman coming of age in the exciting 1908-1912 era using the letters of http://www.tighsolas.ca/.

In fact, Sarah did finally get a ‘nice’ studio picture of her, just before she died. I may post it one day, (she is OLD in it,90 plus )but I thought I’d work on this tintype picture and make her beautiful for the ages. All I have to do is learn how to use this extremely complicated program. Sarah does look exactly like Margaret, her daughter, and those features have passed down, one great great great grandaughter pretty well looks like this. Sara spoke only Gaelic, it seems. She was probably illiterate and very religious. One Nicholson letter said she liked to travel around, couldn’t stay still. Well, frankly, that is very much a gene that goes through this extended Tribe.

These Hebrideans island hopped, then got pushed, or went on their own, to Australia and North America. They had large families so there are LOTS of people in NA with these people’s genes. My own son has the travelling gene. He is 24 and already has travelled across Europe and North America, in gaps years.

Now, I am going to print this picture on photo paper, at the same size as the original tintype and replace it in the old fashioned frame. Gee, I’m supposed to be writing a book, and giving my house, which is full of animal dander, a good clean, as my son is coming for Christmas and is allergic to cats.

I have tonnes to do.. Just like Margaret at Christmas, when the family came home. Why is this?…I know why. Because despite all the astounding advances in technology, microwave ovens (available to cooks in the mid sixties)are Still good for nothing except warming stuff up…or cooking the pre-prepared meals created just for them in the past decade. In the 80′s, my father in law bought a 1,000 dollar microwave and used it to warm coffee. I’m sure the food Margaret Nicholson cooked in 1910 was delicious, (even if she was Scotch) because they used a wood stove, radiant heat, with fresh seasonal veggies and lots of cooking TIME to carmelize, etc.

…July 5th. Morning. Another hot day, it looked like. That would make five days in a row of over eighty degree weather! Flora thought, as she looked out her bedroom window, her head still on the pillow.Tighsolas, being encased in brick, could stay relatively cool during heatwaves, if all the blinds on all the windows were kept drawn. And Tighsolas, which means “House of Light” in Gaelic, had a lot of windows. Mother Margaret liked the light. Her window dressings were in the most modern style, Marie Antoinette lace is what she chose for curtains in the living room. Nothing Victorian about her parlour. The furnishings were handmade by local craftsman, in local woods like elm and pine and maple, all except for the beds. Flora thought the contast of lace curtain against brick looked interesting from the garden, in the afternoon light, where the family spent so much time in the summer.
The delicate, buttery lace undulating in the breeze inside, the regular patchwork of solid earth-coloured bricks outside. A small, tasteful castle, Tighsolas was, just asymmetrical enough. Not too ornamental like so many of the surrounding homes. Not ostentatious. Not too proud. But something substantial- and elegant- all the same. The perfect dwelling for a Canadian family like the Nicholsons.
Still. as Flora awoke, with the morning sun sneaking into the room under the blind, she didn’t rush to get into her clothes, as she did in winter, or on cold rainy days. This morning, she lingered in her nightgown and wondered how nice it would be if on very hot days you could stride around town in a sunny caftan or glittering silk sari, like native women in Africa or India.

Seemed more sensible sometimes. And too scandalous to contemplate seriously. Flora recalled a sermon she heard at church not too long before: “The corset (may its shadow never be less) is the root of morality, self-respect and health,” the Minister had boomed from the pulpit.” It braces up the moral energies as much as it does the physical; many a slatternly Blowsabella that we see lurching along the pavement in a slum would take an entirely different view of life and its responsibilities if she were put into a properly built corset.” Or words like that. It was only occasionally that a sermon stuck with her like that, but it had been just a day or so after she’d overheard her sisters talking about de Bullion Street.

Flora reached for her wrapper, and headed, with it, to the bathroom to wash up. No, corsets were likely to stay an intimate item of apparel for women in progressive countries for a long long time to come. Of this she was sure. And thank goodness for that! She couldn’t wait for her first one. She still wore a waist or training corset. If only she’d put on some weight. Edith had put on her first corset at 15, but, then, Edith was prettier than she was in every possible way. Well, Flora’s teeth were much whiter.

Information Overload?

Filed under: 1910,Isle of Lewis diaspora,parents and chidren — thresholdgirl @ 1:49 pm

Left: Edith, perhaps as late as 1914. I like the detail on the clothes, very pretty. Still, it must have been hot in those clothes. Or was it? Perhaps it is true that covering yourself up with natural fabrics, in light colours, is the way to stay cool on very hot days. No deodorant in those days. Of all the products in the Eaton’s Catalogue for 1909, so many ridiculous in restrospect, there is no underarm deodorant at all.

I decided to start researching the Quebec Tercentary or La Tircentaire de Quebec, and, you know, I won’t have any trouble finding info. I wish I had a program: probably could find one on eBay.

But I still have that scene where Edith and Marion talk about their lives and loves – and disappointments in love and Flora ovehears them.

The older sisters will also allude to the problems with Herb. I will have it that Herb visited Richmond on Canada Day, as it is a holiday, but came and went quickly. Meeting with Clayton Hill. How much of what went on will I divulge? I don’t know yet. He has borrowed money off Clayton and the man has asked for it back, or at least the interest on it. Of course he doesn’t have it. Herb, as a grown man, tries to keep it secret from his mother and father, but this is almost impossible, considering Hill is a relation, and they live in this small town where everyone knows everyone else’s business.

They are a bit jealous of the Hills, (Clayton Hill is married to Margaret’s sister)but mostly their problem is pride. Not only that, but Norman has co-signed some notes for Herb so Herb is also indebted to his father. (They talk a lot about ‘notes’ in the letters. I assume these are debts.) This scene will show how ‘parents’ stayed involved in their children’s lives in those days. Or was it just the Nicholsons, or just the Isle of Lewis Scots clans.

Of course, the parents cut more slack with Herb than with the girls. They didn’t like to ask him outright about any of his actions.

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