
Unknown girl. This is a tiny tintype, the size of a dime, framed in a large embossed piece of pink paper. I don’t recognize the girl as an adult: from what I can see she would be a fabulously beautiful woman. Although there is something about that gaze that is very familiar.
I got ahead of myself posting blogs with pictures, and am catching up, filling up the blogs with chit chat or, more hopefully, scenes from my book. So, despite the date above, I am writing this on December 18th. Just remembered! This is my wedding anniversary.
How cool, writing this blog has allowed me to do something I’ve never done before, remember my anniversary. My husband always does, and some years, I’ve gotten a ring at the front door, accepted flowers and STILL not realized what they were about. I forget my anniversary because it comes so near Christmas and I have so many other things on my mind. And I do not consider marriage my defining act.
Now, how can I segue into Flo and the City, my novel in progress about a girl coming of age in the exciting 1908-1913 era, from real life letters posted on
http://www.tighsolas.ca/ my social studies website? Easy.
Marriage is central to this story, or the pursuit of marriage. Because this is REAL LIFE and not fantasy or wish fulfillment, not all the heroines of this piece end up ‘happily ever after’. Well, none do, because happily ever after does not exist.
And not all the heroines of this piece fit into ‘categories’ such as the plain, good one, (well, Flo does sort of fit) and the beautiful, shallow one.. No Edith was not shallow, etc. The Nicholson women are real people, with a mix of characteristics, some sort of cliche, but most not.
If I want to convey anything with this novel, is that each of us is a product of our time and place as well as a ‘unique’ combination of genes…genes that have come before in our ancestors and will come after in our descendants, expressing in physical characteristics and in personality, but due to ‘accidents’ of birth, these genes can only realize themselves in certain ways in any given time or context… (I will work on this.)
The little girl in the tintype above, who lived her life as a wife and mother, has similar genes to her great great granddaughters, who may be dancers or scientists. The same potential…
This is an age old theme in literature, conveyed ably in those inter-generational epics like East of Eden, so I am doing nothing new thematically (hubris to think otherwise). Well, really it’s all about nature/nurture and that’s an old debate. But I am treading new territory in that these letters -and technology- are allowing me to explore the nature/nurture issue in a slightly different way. (The fact that I know the descendants of these people also helps.)
There is a school of thought, (American) that ANYTHING can be achieved with the right character. This is hoo-ha, of course. It’s all about being the right person, in the right place and the right time, and having luck on your side. Character has a place to play as the contrast between the characters of Marion and brother Herb prove.(My idea.) The Nicholson saga proves that you can do everything right and still have to struggle, even in a time of great promise and prosperity. Or does it? But as I wrote in my ‘obit’ of Norman Nicholson, this man was not a success at business, but he was a success at life. www.tighsolas.ca/page98.html
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